Our oldest child just discovered her first loose tooth.
This posed a bit of a
dilemma for
dh and I. Although
dh and both were visited by the tooth fairy as children neither of us we comfortable with this tradition. Also being the last of her friends to lose a tooth she has heard plenty about the tooth fairy and frankly didn't buy it.
She is an odd combination of sceptic and believer. While loving the playful
aspects of fairies and gnomes and the like she knows them to be fanciful. So she came to me with the question..."Fairies
aren't real...
isn't there a saint for teeth?
A saint...now that is
something my dd connects with. She has an amazing grasp of the concept of the communion on saints. For her turning to a saint is no more
extraordinary than turning to Mom or
Grammpy with a specific need. A phrase we use a lot in our home is "church family". It can mean our parish, Catholics from around the world or
deceased family members and Saints. Just as we work and play and pray together at home dd envisions a Heaven full of happy people working and praying and playing along side us.
So all we needed was a Saint and a timely thread on the
4-real board gave me the answer...
St Apollonia.And here she is:
For her symbols we chose the palms and the gilded tooth on a necklace. I considered
embroidering the bonfire on her apron but it was already way past bedtime for me. The "tooth" is a large gold seed bead. I just couldn't figure out what to use for pincers and it was easier to string it on
embroidery floss.
I wrote down this little prayer and decorated and
laminated it:
Saint Appolonia, I lost a tooth today. I am getting older and want to be closer to God. I want to offer up the little pain of losing my tooth as a sacrifice. You made a big sacrifice for Jesus. Please pray to God that I may grow closer to Our Lord with every tooth I lose.
Amen.
We will let dd read the prayer when she loses her tooth and put it on her headboard with our little
Apollonia. The wooden doll is a finger puppet so she can tuck her tooth underneath.
Dd has let us know she would like her tooth to "disappear". So we will sneak in to take it and pop a quarter in the apron pocket.
She is very comfortable with the idea that saints work through people as does God so it wont be a
disappointment if she sees us -
just a
reinforcment of what she know...it's still a mystery and she is very excited.